by Pat Laster
~AND THEN IT IS WINTER~ You
know . . . time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the
passing years. It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking
on my new life. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all
the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was
back then and of all my hopes and dreams.
But, here it is... the
winter of my life and it catches me by surprise...How did I get here so fast?
Where did the years go and where did my youth go? I remember well seeing older
people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away
from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine
fully what it would be like.
But, here it is...my
friends and I are retired and some are beautifully gray. We move slower and I
see an older person now. Some are in better and some worse shape than I am...but,
I see the great change...Not like the ones that I remember who were young and
vibrant...but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those
older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd be. Nowadays, taking a
nap is mandatory!
And so...now some of us enter
into this new season of our lives unprepared for all the aches and pains and
the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that we wish we had done
but never did. But we have made our ‘bucket lists.’ There still may be time to
do a few more things.
At least we know, that though the winter has
come, we’re not sure how long it will last...this we know, that when it's over
on this earth...it’s over. A new adventure begins!
Yes, we have regrets.
There are things we wish we hadn't done...things we should have done, but indeed,
there are many things we’re happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime.
If you're not in your
winter yet...let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. Whatever
you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put
things off too long!! Life goes by in a hurry. Do what you can today, as you
can never be sure whether this is your winter or not!
You have no promise that
you will see all the seasons of your life...so, live for today and say all the
things that you want your loved ones to remember...and hope that they
appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all
the years past!!
"Life" is a
gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after.
Make it a fantastic one Remember "It is health that is real wealth and not
pieces of gold and silver.
Amen and amen.
3 comments:
The picture you posted reminds me of the song - not sure of title, but "I've looked at clouds from both sides now" and "the things I should have done, but clouds got in my way"
Yes, we are all getting older, so what can we do but enjoy life and think about all the beautiful music we've sung together!! Love you, Pat!
So true Pat! This has certainly hit home with me lately...
I am feeling this so much and thinking about what I really want to do during this prime time of my life. I don't want to waste a day!
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